The art of Just Doing It.

If you flirt with a girl over a long period of time, the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off.
Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "How do they do it?" Women are attracted to men who possess power and status. The art of distracting a woman from all your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for who you are is called seduction. Here is a key to becoming a winner.

RIGHT PLACE,RIGHT TIME

You must arouse her temptation which then gives her an adrenaline rush. Find an appropriate time (and place) to plant one, first on her cheek and then her lips while gently stroking her neck. Fear of being caught stimulates a fight-or-flight response. Adrenaline floods her system, making everything feel much more intense.

HAVE THE DRIVE

Heading to a party is the perfect opportunity to lure her over to the driver's side - the mood is up, and you're dressed to the nines. Be subtle, gently graze. Suggest that it's proper to be fashionably late - and then halt and park. And peck her. It's like sharing a secret all night especially if you've promised each other an encore.

STRAIGHT TALK

Meeting women is easy, if you're not sidetracked by insecurity, coy games or body-language interpretation. The simplest way is lean in unexpectedly and whisper in her ear, "I just had to be near you." Be mindful of your tone. Brash: bad. Calm: good. Caress her with your voice. And when you've become friendly enough and you know you will not get a punch, then say she looks beautiful and tell her how much you want her.

TECHNOLOGY DRIVE

Send a short, suggestive note. Something as simple as, "It was amazing last night. When can I see you again?" will incite her interest for sure. If she feels the same way, she'll respond accordingly. As the tension builds, resist the temptation to pour out your soul or create a list of your top ten fantasies. And remember : Use of emoticons will ensure that you spend the night alone.

FOODIE'S DELIGHT

It's no secret that good food, wine, and conversation lead to great sex. Listen attentively to her, make eye contact, and seek out a common interest. While eating, conjure up the same sounds that accompany passion: mmm, oooh, aahh. You're creating a mood and a fantasy . Be subtle about it, however. You don't want the host to say, "Um, Jai, do you mind? We're eating.

PLEASURE POINT

Indian men know that the journey is almost always more interesting than the destination. Pleasure is linked to the gradual process of seduction, which includes courtship, touching , and kissing. Focusing on the finish misses the point. Try to bring in some passion while having sex. Conventional sex can be very limiting. This results in a larger climax for both partners.

KEY POSITION

Men pay attention to places that seem less erotic, like the inner arms, back and shoulders . Shaking up the routine leads to better times. Variety is the spice of life, use your imagination beyond the missionary, please.

KEEP IT RIGHT

Hint at what's to come: Subtly stroke her thigh or lower back during dinner; steal a lingering kiss on her bare shoulder at a crowded bar.

TIME FACTOR

Ask her out, but bear in mind the time and place. You will eventually learn what the right time is. If you flirt with a girl over a long period of time, the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off . This is a signal that she is sick of waiting and spites you for it.
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